By hiscoadmin April 3, 2023 0 Comments

I have no respect for an older man looking to have an intimate relationship with a girl young enough to be his daughter. Luckily for me, he was not into dating women too much younger. We are both somewhat fit, like to hike and enjoy being outdoors.

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If he could throw me out of his life like trash I should have known he would throw away the dogs he wanted that I raised for him. The dogs will be with me until they leave this world because I believe in owning up to my responsibilities, but after that I am done with dogs. Beyond that, I have not considered divorced women in my search up to now, but after reading your post I will gladly rethink that. I has just been a matter of fear really, of being compared to a prior significant partner. But I have considered widows, so that makes me a bit inconsistent, Lol.

Anonymous, I’m over 54 but I look much younger than my age. Don’t assume some of those women out there are under 50. I know a lot of women in their 40’s-50’s that look very young for their age.

As for me, a widow over 50, I just don’t have the time nor energy to contort myself into unrecognizable shapes to try to get some guy to like me or want me. It’s just such fun to be on my own and do whatever I want and be who I am and remember the respect my beloved husband gave me, appreciate how unbelievably unique he was. The Cold Hard Truth…….in reading your post you are not saying anything new to me and I am not offended. Men and women are built differently, and although there are some similarities in needs like wanting respect from a pleasant companion, men focus more on the physical aspect of a relationship.

We’ve been together for 10 years, married for 7. He gets erections when he light my cigarettes for me. He takes care of me while I take care of him. He still tells me I’m the woman of his dreams and I believe him.

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Been dating for 15 years since my divorce. I have had around 6 relationships since divorce. With the exception of one woman that was close to my She, all of them are younger then me by anywhere from 8 to 25 years. Trust me as I reach my late 50’s I know I was seeking the wrong thing’s.

She praised me constantly, we never fought. It is no wonder that it’s hard to find a nice guy when they view women so poorly in my age range. Well, I am here to tell you that we are not all the same. Some of us are great women who are a pleasure to be around.

I have set my age appropriate limits of 52 – 62. At 5’4″ I wouldn’t mind a man your height. I look for what is inside a person.

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And it is very pathetic low life loser women like you that have destroyed the dating scene altogether now. I don’t have my head in the sand in regards to men’s needs and I do not have a problem taking care of my man in the ways you have stated. Yes I know how to do it, and I happily please my man when I am in a relationship that is mutual and respectful.

Men who message women their own age also see a 2% increase in their replies. To learn more about how age affects attraction, they took a deeper dive into the data from their over 40 million members to see what other trends they could find. As it turns out, even though overall attitudes about age are shifting somewhat, traditional gender dynamics of older men dating younger women and vise versa still dominated the dating scene. It lets you chart acceptable age discrepancies that adjust over the years. According to the rule, for example, a 30-year-old should be with a partner who is at least 22, while a 50-year-old’s dating partner must be at least 32 to not attract social sanction.

Of course, this only lasts for a while because she is into the fantasy of a controlling man but isn’t interested in the reality of it. Fortunately, with one exception all women that have shown interest in me are mid 40s so I have a few years left. LOL, all the women here say they look much younger than they are.

The Army taught me how to iron my shirts and take care of my gear, and I just ran with that. NMJ – as a man who is much closer to 60 than 50, it just seems like the number of available, age-appropriate women who are reasonably fit and stylish are few and far between. Those few who are – well, they know it – and are seeking a “younger” guy who, in their words, can “keep up.” Lotsa $$$ doesn’t hurt either. I maintain that this post’s title assertion is utter BS. In fact, the reverse is true for women… IF they have worked at remaining some semblance of physical fitness and style. All I can say Tom is to protect yourself.